7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Although this book has been around over twenty years, I believe it one of those classics that anyone who is seeking a little personal development should pick up first. The book is broken down by these seven habits which consist of:

* Habit 1: Be Proactive: Principles of Personal Choice
* Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind: Principles of Personal Vision
* Habit 3: Put First Things First: Principles of Integrity & Execution

Independence to Interdependence

* Habit 4: Think Win/Win: Principles of Mutual Benefit
* Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood: Principles of Mutual Understanding
* Habit 6: Synergize: Principles of Creative Cooperation

Continual Improvement

* Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw: Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal of body



Whether you are trying to improve your relationships or be on the fast track in your career, if you follow the guidelines in this book, you will make great changes to your life. One key piece that stuck out to me was the personal mission statement. Similar to that of corporations who have mission statements, the book encourages each one of us to make one for yourself. Displaying your own personal mission statement in your office, bedroom, or where ever you spend some time in on a regular basis, will help you keep focused.

Another learning that stuck out to me was how we can only be responsible for ourselves and what's within our circle of control. When outside factors come in and cause negativity in our lives, that is outside of our reach. However, we must do what is within our control to make as must positive light possible. Who has not ever been in a relationship where they have felt that the other person has "changed" or no longer giving them the love they need? Instead of blaming the other person, the book asks you to look within yourself and ask what have you done to change this?

So before you go out and buy the latest self help book, try reading this first. I have found so many of these ideas within the company that I work for. That speaks volumes about the effectiveness of its teachings.